Second day of the week… it has been a good morning so far since I lost my bb… the environment in the office is still the same if not good then better, the workload is still the same pretty much where there are tons of work to be done… I have very good pair of eyes where I can see changes happen! Do you know what I mean? It means that I can notice the changes that any person made to themselves.
The very little things in other people eyes can be very big things in mine. Such as a simple haircut where most people tends to just ignored it or just let it pass by and not stick into their brain. And for me, this kind of habits is a blessing where it shows that I am someone who really cared about other people. Let’s get to the point where I started to brag about this habit of mine. There is a colleague of mine, here name is Wendy, and I notice that she cuts her hair yesterday. It looks nice on her and I asked he if she cut her hair or not (as in the dialogue)
Me: Wendy, you cut your hair ah?
Wendy: Ya Ya, why is it?
Me: Oh, nothing, just that you look nice in it. J
Wendy: (Tapping my shoulder) Wahhh thank you thank you, u like coffee ah? I treat u a cup of coffee later lah… its very good. I like it… hope u like it too.
Me: Thank you Wendy…
That is what I have been doing throughout my entire internship, looking at peoples, and seeing through, all those sort of little things that happens in life. Some people tend to irritate other while some are doing their own business without even bother on what happens to other. Here I just want to bold and highlight that even a little thing can change someone’s attitude towards us. It shows that we do care about that person and we are giving them the attention that they need as a person and human beings that have feelings and affection.
We don’t have to be too observant towards other, but it is not wrong to show to people that we care and love them. As long as it does not bother the people around us and they are comfortable with us. Some will not give the same reaction as Wendy where they will thought that we are too busybody and always picking their nose just to bother them. Not all will give a good reaction because people are different. Even the hair is all the same but the heart is not. Bear that in mind, because there are people who will get hurt when you are saying things without considering the fragile heart of that person. If it was me, I can easily get upset but it’s just for a few hours. Is that long? Hahaha, well, I just need to calm myself before getting upset and scold that person. It is for the sake of our friendship.
Do use the golden rule “Do unto others what you want them do unto you”. This is a good phrase to use and make a principal of since it is the fundamental things that we, human wanted to be treated as. If you treated people badly, do you really think that they will treat u back nicely? Of course they don’t! This world is harsh and cruel. To be able to keep on surviving is by using our mind properly and with knowledge that can help us go through hard times.
We might encounter some people that are very rude and some that is very kind and polite, it is just the way people are. We cannot expect them to be very nice to us since they got their own personality. Simply changing other people won’t give us any advantage and do not think it as a problem but think of it as an opportunity. Use our head and think of how to deal with such people and think ahead of them, plus, it won’t hurt if we are being nice to them even if they are not very nice to us. Just like what I’d said earlier about people won’t treat us nice when we ourselves didn't treat them nicely. But certain cases where people are going to get their ego down just for the sake of the relationship, this is when love is involved.
Love is universal, so it’s not just between lovers; man and women, but also between family, friends and even animals. When I said it involved love, what I meant is that when we love someone, we will tend to get comfortable with them and forget the basic of being a human being. We tend to ignore the simple things and that simple things are actually the reason that can cause some problems. Sometimes we need to rethink and regret what we have said or done to the people we loves as it will lower or bring down our ego and this will lead to good things in the future.
Some people are too stubborn to admit their fault, and keep on blaming it to the other party. This kind of people is actually a good person; it is just that they are being strong in the presence of other people. We must understand on why they are acting like that. We may know them but we didn’t know what they have gone through in their life. Maybe they have experienced some bad things that forced them to build some wall between their selves onto others. So before we judge we must know what they have gone through their life. We might be surprise if the outcome of knowing the truth will do to us.
Sekian sahaja utk kali ini… btw, ni gambar dinner tadi utk majlis farewell kak tini n kalai, di Bangsar Shopping Centre (Dancing Fish Restaurant)
